I work with high achievers who are tired of managing and ready to actually change.

I am a licensed counsellor, IFS and RLT specialist, mother, partner and former management consultant based in Jakarta. I work with high-achieving individuals, couples and mothers across Southeast Asia and online worldwide.

A LITTLE MORE ABOUT ME

Why I do this work

Before becoming a therapist, I trained in Management Psychology and spent a decade in corporate strategy consulting and leadership, working with individuals and teams in high-performance environments across China and Southeast Asia. That world taught me a great deal about pressure, performance and the cost of holding everything together. It also left me with a deep respect for the people who do it every day.



I now live in Jakarta with my partner and son. I identify as a cisgender heterosexual woman and am guided by values rooted in my Baha'i  upbringing, including the oneness and equality of all humanity. I aim to provide a respectful, inclusive and affirming space for everyone who comes here.



Outside of the work I am deeply committed to mind and body wellbeing. I practice yoga and calisthenics, I love to cook and I am genuinely passionate about nutrition. These things are not separate from the work for me. They are part of the same curiosity about how we take care of ourselves.

QUALIFICATIONS

Training & Education

IN CONVERSATION

What therapy with me actually looks and feels like.

Shabnam sits down with Mikael Jasin, 2024 World Barista Champion, for an honest conversation about high achievement, identity and what it takes to do the deeper work.

READY WHEN YOU ARE

Something brought you here.
That is worth a conversation.

A free 15-minute conversation. No commitment, no pressure.
Just enough time to feel if this feels right.